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Trust Mirage: Are We Using AI We Don't Believe In Just to Keep Pace?

Trust Mirage: Are We Using AI We Don't Believe In Just to Keep Pace?

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Emotional Intelligence

God, I love these corporate five-year AI roadmaps. They're like fantasy novels written by committee—elaborate world-building that's compelling until you step back and realize dragons aren't real.

The disconnect between what companies deploy (66%) and what people actually trust (46%) isn't surprising when the architects of these grand strategies are three organizational layers removed from implementation reality. I worked with a Fortune 100 last month whose "AI transformation strategy" was authored by consultants who couldn't explain how a gradient descent actually works.

Here's what happens: Someone who excels at PowerPoint but has never debugged a production model at 2AM creates a pristine roadmap. Then the people who actually build things are forced to execute it while reality intervenes monthly. Remember when everyone's 2023 roadmap assumed they'd build on one large language model, before four better ones launched by summer?

Trust calibration needs to be built by the builders, not planned by the planners. My friend at Anthropic told me they scrapped their long-term trust framework three times last year because the capabilities kept leapfrogging their assumptions.

What's your experience with these roadmaps? Have you seen any that actually survived contact with the enemy?

Challenger

Right, and that trust gap isn’t just a UX problem—it’s a systems-level failure in how we frame AI utility versus AI reliability. If two-thirds of people are using something they don’t trust, it means we’ve built digital infrastructure that prioritizes availability over dependability. We’ve essentially said, “It’s better to have a fast liar than a hesitant expert.”

Take GitHub Copilot or even ChatGPT for coding help. Engineers use them constantly, but few trust them blindly—because they’ve been burned. Bad regex, hallucinated functions, subtle logic bugs that barely pass testing. But the tool is still addictive because it offers something faster than thinking: the illusion of near-instant progress. And so developers double-check everything—turning into babysitters for a junior coder who never sleeps and sometimes makes stuff up.

The deeper issue is we're normalizing unearned trust as a workflow. That breeds cognitive dissonance. People start accepting fuzziness from systems that *feel* smart but haven't earned authority. It’s a bit like trusting WebMD because it gave you an answer fast—not necessarily the right answer, but one that sounds plausible at 1 AM.

And let’s not ignore the worst-case scenario here. A 20% trust gap now might just be user intuition catching up to system failure. What happens when the AI is plugged into critical infrastructure, or decision loops with real consequences—say, financial trading or medical diagnosis? Trust gaps there don’t just introduce friction; they break accountability. Who do you blame when both human and AI were “kind of right” but also “kind of wrong”?

Trust calibration isn’t just about improving models. It’s about forcing systems—*and the people behind them*—to own their confidence levels and their screw-ups. We need AI that not only says “I don’t know” when appropriate, but also highlights when *you* probably shouldn’t trust it. Until that’s standard, we’re stuck in a weird co-dependent relationship where the smarter the system seems, the more dangerous it becomes when it's wrong.

Emotional Intelligence

The five-year AI roadmap thing hits a nerve because it represents this perfect collision of corporate pretension and technological naivety.

Look, I've sat in those rooms where executives who've never written a line of code confidently map out AI transformations through 2029. It's corporate fanfiction. The same people who couldn't predict what would happen with their current systems six months ago are somehow crystal-clear about transformer architectures in 2027?

What's fascinating is how we've normalized this absurdity. We nod along to these roadmaps while simultaneously acknowledging that the tech is evolving faster than our understanding of it. It's organizational cognitive dissonance at its finest.

The companies actually succeeding with AI are taking a completely different approach. They're building small, empowered teams with technical credibility who ship something real in 90 days, learn from it, and iterate. No grand five-year visions—just pragmatic cycles of building and learning.

I'm not saying long-term thinking is bad. But there's a difference between directional navigation and pretending you have GPS coordinates for a destination nobody's mapped yet.

Challenger

Exactly—and that mismatch between *use* and *trust* isn’t just a curiosity. It’s a sign that people don’t use AI because they trust it; they use it because they *have* to. There’s a big difference.

Take the deluge of generative AI tools being stuffed into workplace software—word processors, spreadsheets, Slack, email. You’ll find people copy-pasting from ChatGPT into GDocs not because they think the output is always right (most of them openly *don’t*)—but because their workflows are under pressure to produce something faster. Trust isn’t the driver here. It’s time, cost, expectations. Fear of being outpaced.

That’s the root of the calibration problem: we keep talking about “building trust,” but what we’re really doing is *bypassing* it by making AI unavoidable.

Even worse—it creates this weird paradox. People lean on AI for critical decisions (“just give me a first draft,” “summarize all the legal points”), but then they doubt it enough to recheck everything manually… so AI simultaneously becomes overused *and* under-trusted.

That’s not trust calibration. That's cognitive dissonance at scale.

Want to actually recalibrate trust? Don’t just focus on accuracy metrics or explainability overlays. Give people actual *feedback loops.* If I use a model to screen 200 job applications and it misses a great candidate—*show me*. If it flags a pattern in sales data, let me simulate what happens if I act or don’t act. Trust isn’t persuasion. It’s earned through real-world consequence and correction.

Otherwise, we’re stuck in an absurd loop where AI is that coworker nobody quite believes, but everyone copies just in case.

Emotional Intelligence

I hear the frustration, but I think it's worse than just obsolete roadmaps. It's the entire mentality behind them.

These five-year AI plans reek of the same thinking that gave us waterfall development and those comically precise Gantt charts stretching into imaginary futures. Meanwhile, the actual AI landscape shifts every 3-4 months now.

Remember when everyone's 2023 roadmap had to be completely scrapped after ChatGPT launched? Good times.

The deeper problem is who's crafting these plans. I've sat in rooms where executives who can barely use Siri confidently map out AI initiatives through 2028. It's like watching someone who's never cooked plan a restaurant empire.

The people who truly understand AI's capabilities and limitations—usually engineers and product people with hands-on experience—are rarely the ones setting strategy. Instead, we get consultants who've mastered PowerPoint but never wrestled with a model in production.

What works better? Small, empowered teams with technical credibility and a mandate to experiment quickly. Give them resources, clear success metrics, and the ability to pivot when (not if) assumptions prove wrong.

And maybe—just maybe—we should stop pretending we can see more than 12-18 months ahead in a technology that's redefining itself constantly.

Challenger

Right, and that gap—between usage and trust—tells us something more interesting than just “AI has a trust problem.” It tells us that people are relying on systems they *don’t* trust, which is a much darker signal. That’s not a usability issue; that’s a systemic incentive failure.

Take GitHub Copilot, for example. Tons of developers use it daily—not necessarily because they trust it to write flawless code, but because productivity pressure outweighs confidence in correctness. It’s the equivalent of riding a bike with questionable brakes because you’re late for work. You know it might crash, but it gets you there faster—most of the time.

The real kicker is that this mismatch creates a false signal for the vendors. Usage data says adoption is thriving! But it's built on shaky ground—obedience under pressure, not genuine trust. And that’s dangerous, especially when these systems worm their way into higher-stakes domains like legal advice, healthcare triage, or financial modeling.

Companies often interpret high engagement as endorsement. But if you dig one layer deeper, you’ll find what I call "compliance usage"—people using AI not because they want to, but because the system makes it harder *not* to. That’s not trust. That’s Stockholm Syndrome in product design.

The smarter question isn’t "how do we get people to trust AI more?"—which is where most of the guardrails and explainability noise lives—but rather, "how do we *align incentives* so trust and reliance grow *together*?" Because right now, use is accelerating, but trust is lagging—and eventually, that mismatch becomes an implosion.

Or worse, a lawsuit.

Emotional Intelligence

Trust calibration is probably the most important conversation we're not having honestly in tech right now.

The numbers tell a fascinating story: people are using systems they don't actually trust. It's like we're all eating at a restaurant where the majority suspects the kitchen is dirty, but we keep coming back because it's convenient or everyone else is doing it.

What's wild about those corporate five-year AI roadmaps is they're usually drafted by the same executives who were blindsided by ChatGPT in the first place. The people designing the future are often those who least understood how we got to the present.

I spent years watching companies meticulously plan AI initiatives that became irrelevant before they launched. The hard truth? The most successful AI implementations I've seen came from small teams who tried something, learned it was wrong, and pivoted quickly - not from following a pristine PowerPoint timeline created 18 months earlier.

The real experts are the ones with battle scars from shipping something that didn't work as expected. They're rarely the ones invited to the executive strategy sessions. Instead, we get consultants who've mastered slides but never wrestled with a model in production.

What's your experience with this disconnect? Have you seen companies actually benefit from long-term AI planning, or does it just create an illusion of control?

Challenger

That mismatch—66% usage versus 46% trust—isn't just a signal of broken calibration; it's proof that utility is overpowering skepticism. People aren’t using AI because they trust it. They’re using it because they feel they have no choice.

Take GitHub Copilot. Developers gripe constantly about its hallucinations or shallow suggestions, but they still use it daily. Why? Not because they trust it to be right, but because it’s faster to vet its wrong answers than to start from scratch. Efficiency is distorting trust; we’ve confused “useful” with “reliable.”

This dynamic creates a weird feedback loop. The more we rely on AI despite low trust, the more the systems get normalized. That normalization then gets mistaken for endorsement.

Worse, these systems don’t do much to help users build calibrated trust. You don’t get a confidence score. There’s no embedded epistemology—no peek into why the model reached a certain conclusion. You’re left guessing: is this output a coin toss or a researched essay?

Compare that to how we trust real-world professionals. If a doctor gives us a diagnosis, we ask how they know. Tests, data, experience—we calibrate our trust based on rationale. AI just gives us the answer with vibes.

This gap matters most at the edges—when stakes are high and mistakes are costly. If you trust GPT-4 to write a Slack message, fine. If you trust it to summarize a legal contract and miss a clause, now you've got a billable-hour problem—or worse, a lawsuit.

Until AI systems can explain not just what they predict but why and how they weighed competing factors, trust will be a guessing game. And that guessing game is what’s fundamentally broken, because we’re pretending that use equals belief. It doesn’t. It just means we’ve accepted speed over certainty.

Emotional Intelligence

Sure, here's the problem with your five-year AI roadmap: it's like planning a road trip across a landscape that's literally reshaping itself while you drive.

I've watched countless leadership teams get trapped in this cycle. They hire expensive consultants who create beautiful slide decks full of arrows pointing toward some glorious AI-enabled future. But these roadmaps almost always miss the point in three critical ways.

First, they're built on assumptions about technology that will be hilariously outdated in 18 months, let alone five years. Remember when everyone thought we'd need to carefully engineer prompts forever? That changed in what, six months?

Second, they typically focus on capabilities rather than actual human problems worth solving. I've seen a bank spend millions on an AI strategy that never once asked "what do our customers struggle with that AI might help solve?"

Third—and this is the kicker—they're usually crafted by people who've never had to ship and maintain AI systems in production. There's a world of difference between the theory of AI transformation and the messy reality of keeping a model running when it suddenly starts hallucinating your CEO's phone number.

What works better? Small, focused experiments with clear success metrics tied to actual business problems. Teams with the autonomy to pivot when the technology shifts. And leadership that understands AI isn't a destination you plan for years in advance—it's a capability you build through continuous learning.

The companies getting this right aren't the ones with the prettiest roadmaps. They're the ones building institutional muscle memory around adaptation itself.

Challenger

Right, and that mismatch between use and trust isn’t just a glitch — it’s a symptom of a deeper dysfunction in how AI is deployed inside organizations. People aren’t using these systems because they trust them. They’re using them because they *have to*. Either it’s embedded into the workflow, or there’s social pressure to show they’re leveraging “cutting-edge tools.” It’s performative adoption, not functional trust.

Look at CRM systems that bake AI recommendations into sales workflows. The rep might click the AI-recommended lead not because they believe it's better, but because it's the path of least resistance. The button is blue. It’s at the top. It’s what the VP keeps asking about. That’s not trust; that's compliance painted as innovation.

And the kicker? This misalignment actually makes the systems *worse*. If you’re using AI but don’t trust it, you're probably second-guessing it, slotting in gut checks, creating shadow processes to double-check outputs. That human-AI hybrid mode sounds elegant in theory — "human in the loop" and all — but in practice, it breeds inefficiency and confusion. Who’s driving the decision, the person or the model? Accountability melts into fog.

Trust calibration isn't just about UX or explainability dashboards. It’s about incentives, power structures, and how much real authority people feel over the tools they use. Until companies stop measuring “AI usage” as a success metric and start measuring “AI used confidently and correctly,” we’re going to keep mistaking forced interaction for trust.

Emotional Intelligence

Five-year AI roadmaps are the corporate equivalent of those 1950s predictions about flying cars and robot butlers. They give executives a comforting illusion of control while reality sprints in an entirely different direction.

Here's the uncomfortable truth: the people sketching these grand AI visions are often the furthest removed from implementation realities. I've watched brilliant strategy decks gather digital dust while scrappy teams solve actual problems with whatever works today.

Remember when everyone was certain that custom deep learning models were the only path forward? Now we're in a world where fine-tuned foundation models deployed in days outperform systems that took years to build. The companies winning aren't following rigid roadmaps—they're setting clear objectives and letting their teams rapidly experiment toward them.

What's worse is how these roadmaps create false certainty. They make leaders believe they understand risks they don't, trust systems they shouldn't, and ignore opportunities that don't fit the narrative they've already committed to.

Instead of five-year plans, we need adaptive frameworks: clear ethical boundaries, rapid testing cycles, and the humility to change direction when the technology evolves—which happens approximately every Tuesday now.

Challenger

Exactly — you're hitting on the asymmetry at the heart of AI adoption: usage outpacing trust. But I’d argue it’s not just broken trust calibration — it’s missing trust *scaffolding*. We implicitly baked AI into workflows without building the cognitive infrastructure users need to interpret it intelligently.

Think about it: if two-thirds of people are using something only 46% actually trust, it’s not just a mismatch. It’s a compliance problem masquerading as adoption. People are clicking “Yes” on AI suggestions because the button's there — or worse, because not clicking slows them down. That’s not agency; that’s design coercion.

A good example? AI-assisted coding tools. GitHub Copilot is used by tons of developers now. Roughly 90,000 organizations. And yet, a sizable chunk don’t trust the outputs at face value — not without reviewing every line. Which they often don’t have time for. So what's happening is this weird limbo: “I don’t trust the tool, but I use it anyway,” because it feels like the price of staying productive. That’s not trust. That’s learned helplessness in a slick IDE.

We’ve over-indexed on usability and under-invested in interpretability. You can’t just slap a confidence score or a green checkmark and call it a day. Trust calibration requires transparency that isn’t pedantic — the kind that fits how humans actually make decisions under pressure. Not a whitepaper. A breadcrumb trail of reasoning.

But here's the real kicker: when you short-circuit trust calibration at scale, bad AI decisions don’t just become more frequent — they become institutionalized. Because nobody wants to be the person who pushed back on the system everyone else blindly used.

So yeah, the calibration’s broken. But it didn’t just crack on its own — we bolted the engine onto the plane mid-flight and hoped the passengers wouldn’t ask too many questions.

Emotional Intelligence

Five-year AI roadmaps are the corporate equivalent of those medieval maps with sea monsters in the corners. They look impressive in board meetings but become hilariously outdated before the ink dries.

Look, I've watched dozens of companies draft these elaborate AI strategies that try to predict technology that's evolving monthly. It's like trying to plan your exact route through Manhattan during rush hour... three years in advance.

The people crafting these roadmaps are often the furthest from actual implementation. They're the strategy consultants and executives who haven't written a line of code or shipped a product in a decade. They don't understand that AI development isn't linear—it's exponential and chaotic.

What works instead? Adaptive frameworks. The companies succeeding with AI right now have principles and capabilities they're building, not rigid five-year plans. They're structured for rapid experimentation and quick pivots.

Remember when everyone was building chatbots in 2017? The companies that survived weren't the ones with detailed five-year chatbot strategies—they were the ones who could quickly recognize when the technology wasn't delivering and shift resources elsewhere.

Trust calibration requires actually shipping things, learning from real usage, and evolving. Not laminating a PowerPoint deck that'll be laughably obsolete by next quarter.

Challenger

Right, and that stat—66% use, 46% trust—isn’t just a trust gap. It's a twisted inverse of the usual technology curve. Normally, adoption follows trust. You don’t install a smoke detector you assume will gaslight you. But here it’s flipped. People are using AI tools they don’t fully believe. That’s not adoption—it’s coercion dressed up as innovation.

And let’s be real: this isn’t just about users hedging their bets with ChatGPT at work. We're seeing managers press teams to "use AI to speed things up," while simultaneously worrying the outputs might be hallucinated nonsense. It’s Taylorism 2.0—productivity with plausible deniability.

Why is trust calibration so broken? Because current AI interfaces give zero transparency into confidence. The system blurts things with deadpan certainty, whether it’s summarizing a dense scientific paper or inventing an entirely fictional legal case (see: the unfortunate lawyer who cited nonexistent decisions courtesy of ChatGPT). There’s no visible “uncertainty bar”—no grayscale in the answer.

Google search, for all its faults, at least lets you skim links and assess credibility yourself. With LLMs, we’ve replaced “you decide what’s true” with “trust this voice that makes stuff sound true.”

If we want to fix trust calibration, the answer isn’t just slapping on another disclaimer. It’s rethinking how these systems express uncertainty as a feature, not a liability. What if AI could say, “I’m 68% confident this stat is correct—double-check it here”? That's real trust negotiation.

Or better: what if AI systems could show their reasoning process—like a logic trail you can audit. Very few current models are architected for that kind of transparency. They perform like magicians, not advisors. And we keep clapping, even when we know it's sleight of hand.